Hello, my loves. Today, we’re going to be talking about “Walk Away Energy,” which is the ultimate fucking power move in love, in business, in life, and everywhere else.

We’re going to talk about what Walk Away Energy actually is, why it’s so powerful, and how to embody it so you stop settling for crumbs in any and all areas of your life.

What is “Walk Away” Energy?

If you aren’t familiar, I actually heard the phrase “Walk Away Energy” from Chapel Roan.

I saw a TikTok of her being interviewed at the Grammys, and the interviewer was asking her how she’s so chill even with all the success that she’s had as an artist, and she said, “Because I have Walk Away Energy.”

Let’s start with what Walk Away Energy is.  Walk Away Energy, to me, is the embodiment of “I know my worth so deeply, and I refuse to beg for what should be freely given.”

It’s not about entitlement; it’s not about telling someone they need to treat you a certain way.

I see that a lot with women. They start to do personal development, and then they want to tell every man that they’re talking to, “This is how I deserve to be treated.”

You don’t need to tell someone how to treat you. You treat yourself that way, and they will follow suit. And if they don’t…you walk away. Hence, “Walk Away Energy.”

You’re not going to beg for respect, consistency, honesty, etcetera—those are very, very basic things that no one should fucking be begging for. If someone isn’t giving those things to you, simply walk away.

Walk Away Energy is all about knowing when to step the fuck back. Knowing when enough is enough. Knowing when you’re being mistreated. Knowing when something’s not for you. Knowing when a relationship is done in any, in any way, shape, or form.

Knowing when something is complete: that’s the Walk Away Energy vibe.

Walk Away Energy is Magnetic

So, why is Walk Away Energy so magnetic? Because people always want what they can’t have.

If you think about things in terms of energetics, the more you cling to someone, the more avoidant they become. The less you cling, the more someone leans in. 

Now don’t use that to be manipulative—you can’t get an avoidant guy to commit by pretending to be detached. Energy always trumps action, no matter what.

You can act like you don’t care, but deep down you do, and they’ll sense that. You genuinely have to let go and stop emotionally clinging on to them.

And the best part is…when you stop clinging, you create space for something way better to step in.

Why is it So Hard to Walk Away?

If something better is coming after, then why do people struggle to walk away?

Because a lot of people get caught up in the fear that this is as good as it gets. What if they let this go, and they’re alone forever?

That’s called scarcity mindset. Scarcity mindset can crop up in business, in love, in money, in sexuality…no matter what, you can always fall into the trap of thinking there’s not enough of what you want to go around.

Sure, maybe this guy treats you like a four out of ten, but what if the next guy treats you like a two out of ten? What if four is the best you’re going to get?

Let me be so clear: I would rather be alone than be treated like a fucking four out of ten.

If I’m not being treated like a ten out of ten, I’m out. Because I treat myself like a ten out of ten, and if you’re going to be in my world, you need to match or exceed that, period.

If that’s not happening, I don’t care how hot you are or how big your dick is—I’m walking away.

Walk Away…And Join The Connected Woman

if you want to learn how to embody Walk Away Energy and stop settling for f*cking NOTHING in your life, my signature shadow work program The Connected Woman is the space for that. 

It’s where you stop settling for scraps and you start embodying the woman who gets everything she wants. She knows she deserves it, and she doesn’t have to scream that to everyone she meets, because her energy does it for her.

WORK WITH MICHELLE: 

Join THE CONNECTED WOMAN, a shadow work course for the woman who is ready to break free from the anxious/avoidant dance in relationships and step into unfuckwithable confidence, security, and self-worth: https://michellepanning.com/the-connected-woman

Sign up for THE EXPERIENCE, an exclusive 12-month mentorship experience where you go all in on YOU (aka, you get direct access to me as a mentor, access to every offer I run over your year, and MORE): https://michellepanning.com/the-experience

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