You CANNOT mess anything up. 

Especially when you learn to push through your fear. 

In this post, I’m going to be talking about the level of truth and trust that I have been dropping into lately. Understanding that fact that you cannot f*ck anything up is so valuable, not only for your relationships but for your entire life. 

Ready to find your truth and stop questioning every step you take? Keep reading!

Why you need to start telling yourself the truth.

The scariest lies are the ones we tell ourselves. We lie to ourselves because the truth scares us, and we want to avoid it as much as possible. If something is not true to you and it’s not working out, there is absolutely NO tool in the world that can change that fact. 

Where are you lying to yourself about what is true? 

Maybe you’re stuck at a job you don’t like, or you’re having trouble leaving a relationship you’re not feeling anymore. Be honest with yourself about what you actually want.  

Our truth lies within the silence, and when it comes to deciphering that with our partners, sometimes we need to just stop talking and listen. The best truth always comes out when there is zero kicking and screaming.

What love is and how to start finding your truth.

When my past boyfriend and I decided it was time to call it quits, we didn’t make the decision to stay and “work on it” as most people do. Something incredible opened up from our relationship just by saying the truth about how we felt and what we wanted. 

Love is NOT control. Love is allowing someone to be who they are in every moment. And sometimes love means letting go and doing what is best for you.

You can have impeccable standards and know what you want and what you don’t want. If someone does not want to meet that standard, then so be it. It is your decision to accept that truth and walk away. 

A lot of us get into committed relationships and marriages because we want the safety of never leaving. There is so much certainty that lies within commitment. Oftentimes, if you’re really honest with yourself, you may realize you don’t even care to be in that relationship, and that’s not what love is. Love is the freedom to exist without having to force or control anything. 

Whenever you get yourself into something, ask yourself, “Does this feel true to me?”.

Comfort in the Chaos: Finding Your Truth & Accepting It Without Question: The Bottomline

Thank you so much for reading! Start diving into your truth and asking yourself what you truly want. You cannot mess anything up when you’re living in your truth because deep down, that’s what you’ve wanted all along. Don’t question your boundaries or desires, just let them be. 

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See you back here in the next one!